Pemilihan umum presiden (Pilpres) 2014 mempertemukan pasangan Jokowi-Jusuf Kalla dan Prabowo Subianto-Hatta Rajasa bertarung di tengah gelanggang. Siapa yang bakal menjadi pemimpin Indonesia dalam lima tahun ke depan? Simak liputannya di sini.
" Home parenting parents determine the child's independence " .Children aged 2-3 years can actually be trained independently . But not a few toddlers who are used to doing things with the help or " intervention " caregivers and parents . Children are always catered for . If you have this , do not be surprised if a child is difficult because self -paced already served .
But do not worry , you still can change the pattern that has formed it . Here's how to change it , as suggested by Alzena Masykouri , MPsi , from mouse deer , Jakarta .
1. Compact
Talking to children and people in the surrounding environment , ie grandparents , and guardians . The goal is to enable the equality of treatment of children so that what the target is reached .
All should be under one command , namely parents , how the method to be followed in memandirikan children .
2. patient
Next, begin to implement the program memandirikan children . Avoid angry when children are " old " to do something . Remember , everything takes processes .
3. Communications
Convey what the expectations of parents . Let's just say , for example, " has been a big brother . So , from now brother can bathe themselves , yes . "
Give the direction of the flat tone and short , not too fast because the child's attention span is short . Such as , " Yes , now go to the shoes, then his socks , yes . Store in a shoe rack . " It could also phrase , " Let whoever is quickest to wear shoes , father or brother ? "
4. Consistent
When children are bored , feel inadequate , feel forced , it will fail you program to train independently . Say to him , " All these needs you . If you do not want to eat alone , I'll feel hungry . " So , still provide support , not aid .
5. Appreciation
When the child reached a target of self-sufficiency , provide rewards that make children feel proud of himself . Children will feel confident and believes that he is able to do themselves .
It is important to remember , ask the child to do something does not mean you not love or do not want to pay attention to the child . Other people may judge you as " the Queen or King of Tega " , leave it alone . After all , you do it without violence , threats , or punishment . Basically, you want to change the paradigm is always aided and diladeni . What also needs to be remembered , the future competition in the era of very tight . If the child is not independent from an early age , he was not prepared to face.